
I think every submissive woman had to deal with a some nutcases as I am about to discribe.
Picture this…A submissive woman places an ad.
Maybe in search of a contact or maybe just out of some form of curiousity.
Maybe just to gather some information.
One of the first reactions they’ll get is one of some nutcase writing a reaction as follows.
“Get on your knees and mail me slut!”
Now apart from this being a rather uncomfortable way of typing a message on your keyboard, this does not show any kind of respect.
Another variation is:
“I am your Master!” ( excuse me? have we met?)
You will obey me!
I’ll expect your nude pic in my mail.
Like THAT will work.
And here’s another one.
HI! dickhead@MSN.com
wanna cam?
I mean come on!
Be serious guys!
Have you ever gotten any serious contacts this way?
Do you really expect any selfrespecting submissive woman will actually send you a mail with: “OOOH yes please Master…abuse me!
All it does is show that you have no respect for women, let alone a submissive one.
The most precious gift a submissive woman can give to a Dominant is herself.
Do not take that lightly.
You want Respect?
Then SHOW respect.
What worked for me?
Quite simple.
Be yourself.
Show respect.
Do not make any false promises.
LISTEN to what a submissive has to say. ( hard for a Dominant isn’t it? ;-) )
Find out about the PERSON first.
Remember…a submissive is a person first, then maybe a mother and maybe your submissive later.
A Dominant is only a Master when accepted as such by his sub or slave.
Do not hand out collars like they are going out of fashion.
Do not lie to the submissive.
And you know what??
I think you can actually think of some things yourself.
Just use common sence.
How would YOU like to be treated?
And guess what?
It worked for me!
Just being li’ll oll’me.
Just a thought.
(c) McLeod